I would rather be kicked in the head than lied to. I can handle disappointment. I've had plenty of it in my life, no big deal. But, to be lied to... when just a, "gee sorry it didn't work out" and a hug would have made everything ok. Is SO not cool. I'm angry and justifiably. If you're not sure say so. Don't say for sure. I'm so disappointed. Not in the evening but in a person. Especially to try to make me believe it wasn't so. I think that hurts the worst. :(